Your Sorted guide, Karen Paritee

For 45 years (not a typo), I asked myself: “Why is it so hard to do better when I know better?” And I did know better. So I did all the things, all the time. The programs. The books. The willpower. The affirmations. The habit-tracking. The self-love. (You name it. I did it.)

And to what end? More dread. More cringing. More begging—please, let this be the last time.

The Game I Didn’t Want To Play Anymore

“Compromise What You Want for What You Also Want”

Rule #1: You can do what you want now, as long as you pay for it later.

Rule #2: If you do what you don’t want to now, you can earn what you want to do later.

(Sure. Let’s call that “progress.”)

A View from the Other Side

Sorted isn’t a “club.” It’s a realization. You’ve never been the problem. You’ve just spent too much time in a world that needed you to believe you were.

The more women who win by being who they already are, the harder it gets to pass down the struggle—and the faster getting Sorted becomes obsolete. (Exactly as planned.)

Stop Trying. Start Getting.

If you’re trying to change yourself to get what you want, you’re working too hard and for too little return. That’s not right.

Sorted is for the woman who’s done everything she can think of—except giving up on herself. And she’s overdue for the chance to use the power of who she already is—to her advantage. So she can keep the “change.”

(If this feels right to you, you were always one of us. )

What if you’re already who you’re trying to become?

 See the proof you’re already who you wish you could be.

(Before I snap under the weight of us all pretending you’re not.)

But, please. (And I hope, obviously.)

Come as you are. So you can leave how you want to be.